This is the 2nd week of my own classes, and the 2nd week of developing classroom culture. One tool that I’ve been using extensively today is communication with families.
I left a voicemail with a family today because the student hasn’t turned in any work. This student is also highly disruptive, but I am first trying the approach of letting that student know I am in communication with the family.
I left another voicemail today because the student would not relinquish her cell phone. It was disappointing to find that each phone number we had was disconnected. I assume this is due to moving, but I am not sure. I emailed the attendance office who was able to find current numbers for the parent.
I sent three emails to different families ask for parent’s help in getting their student to stay quieter in class. I asked for any ideas that they had. Last year, I had great success from sending e-mails just like these. While I seldom get a reply, I almost always see a difference in the student the next day.
I had the benefit of calling home just as a student came home, and the mom asked me to hold while she proceeded to loudly reprimand her son. Some of what she said was “you let the other boys be the class clowns” and “she has her high school diploma.” I now know that graduation is important to his mom and something that he is expected to do. It is helpful for me to understand this about this student.
I was in a parent conference this morning. All the student’s teachers were present, as well as the parents, the student, the counselor, and assistance principal. It was a crowded room. It was clear that there were trust issues between the student and the parents. The student is capable, but easily distracted. When the student asked me to send an email home saying that he’d turned in his homework today, I understood more about how doing this for him would help.
In my 4th period Algebra class, I sent home a very different homework assignment. I printed out the assignment, handed it out, and had them read it. I did not verbally give the assignment. What I wrote was a short paragraph saying, “We as a class will not be able to cover the required materials that will be needed for future math classes because it’s too noisy and we have too many disruptions in the class. Clearly, I’m not giving you what you need. Write and tell me what you need from me, and what you are willing to do to help yourself and this class. Write it, sign it and have your parents sign it, because I might need to enlist their help.” This last sentence really got to the students. A couple of students then reprimanded the others in class and said that they need it quieter to be able to learn. I was thankful that the students raised their hands and cooperated in a good discussion facilitated by me. We then went back to the day’s lesson, and the noise level was very reasonable and the participation was excellent. After the lesson, I gave them feedback that I thought the lesson we’d just had went well and that I could work with that volume level. When asked if they could also work with that volume level, most of the students raised their hands.
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